The Basics of Mindfulness Meditation
The basic idea behind mindfulness meditation is simple: you sit in a comfortable position and focus on something like your breathing.
When your mind wanders, you bring it back to its original task.
What Mindfulness Is (And Isn’t)
The goal of mindfulness meditation is not about achieving a state of bliss – although that can be a pleasant side effect. It’s about training yourself to recognise when you’re distracted from what you’re doing and, in time, not be so easily distracted. In other words, focus on one thing at a time.
9 Practical Tips to Begin Your Practice
Whether you’re just beginning to get into meditation or are already a regular, here are some tips for ensuring you get started and stay on the path:
- Be motivated, dedicated, and disciplined even if you don’t enjoy it at first just like eating vegetables or exercising).
- Set realistic goals and be kind to yourself even if you become uncomfortable, restless, impatient or emotional.
- Let yourself be in the present – without wanting anything to be different.
- Embrace it fully – rather than treating it as an escape from reality.
- Prepare so you’re ready to meditate rather than coming up with excuses not to.
- Be consistent. It’s better to do 5 to 10 minutes a day than one hour a week.
- Start where you are. Like physical exercise, 20 minutes will be more beneficial than 10. So start small and try to work your way up to longer sessions.
- Keep it simple – do a breath or relaxation meditation to get into the flow.
- Stick with one style of meditation for a week before trying another one – so you don’t get overwhelmed with all the options out there.
Have you seen my Meditation Library? It’s a perfect place to start practicing mindfulness through guided meditation. Listen free here.
Kind Words
I recently attended my first guided meditation session with Natalie at Alite Mind, and it was such a positive experience. As someone whose mind is constantly busy, I wasn’t sure I’d be able to switch off, but Natalie created such a calm, welcoming and supportive environment that I found myself settling into the experience much more than I expected. She has a lovely way of holding the space without any pressure, gently guiding everyone through the session. I left feeling calmer, more grounded and looking forward to coming back. If you’ve been curious about meditation but aren’t sure where to start, I’d highly recommend giving Natalie a try.
I completed Natalie's 5 week Restoring You program earlier this year and I can highly recommend it. Each session is guided by Natalie who absolutely exudes warmth and a generosity of spirit that ensures you feel comfortable with learning the various meditation techniques as she guides you through learning useful tools like journalling and quieting the overthinking mind. I have definitely taken the lessons from these sessions and applied them in my daily life. 💗
The most relaxed we have all felt and guided through our meditation session. All thanks to Natalie. We will definitely be back for more! What a relaxing, calming, grounding experience!
Alite mind has been such a nourishing experience, Natalie’s warmth and kindness offered me a safe place to share and be heard💛.. I am so grateful to have been so gently held, and guided with wisdom and patience… Thankyou, I look forward to our continued journey, 🙏🏻Diana
As a fellow child counsellor, I highly recommend Alite Mind. Professional, warm and values aligned. Alite Mind understands the real world challenges children face and is committed to teaching practical tools that empower independence and long term success.
I feel blessed to have met Natalie in 2022. Through her own lived experiences Natalie personifies the qualities needed to offer the safe, supportive, and caring space through Alite Mind for women, children and teens. For all her professionalism, Natalie is still able to connect, articulate and meet needs in a personable, fun, but real way as she is completely heart centred in all offerings from counselling one on one, workshops, and guiding meditation. She is passionate and a leader in supporting all to shine through their on light. I look forward to spending more time with Natalie and grateful for her support and services.
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